Sunday, December 16, 2007

INFP In a Conflict

INFP Conflict Reactions Personality Traits:
INFP may flee the conflict, they will be upset by it
INFP will likely not understand the reason(s) for the conflict
INFP will desire to find a harmonious solution to the problem
INFP will not take the most logical approach to finding the solution
INFP will view “conflict” as a distasteful, uncomfortable part of life
INFP will quickly become depressed by the conflict
INFP will prefer to accommodate at first

INFP Conflict Resolution Activity Personality Traits
INFP will naturally consider the feelings of others in conflict resolution activity until the INFP feels personal (likely idealistic) values are being ignored
INFP will typically show great respect, kindness as they work toward resolution
INFP will try to satisfy all parties in their conflict resolution activity
INFP will look for “personal” solutions to the conflict first
INFP will be creative in their conflict resolution activity
INFP will encourage input from others

INFP Likely Positive Solutions Will Be ul>
Idealistic and future oriented
Harmonious to all involved
Insightful, astute, shrewd, discerning above all
Feasible
Decided upon through consensus
Win-win when at all possible

INFP Conflict Resolution Activity-Improvement Opportunities (weaknesses)

INFP will probably quickly affirm someone else’s feelings and emotions in a conflict sometime to the ignoring of their own
INFP may overstate the effect of any hurt feelings they may have
INFP will many times make statements by asking questions instead
INFP will have difficulty seeing in the moment, specific solutions
INFPs may put it off if it feels too bad
INFP will probably take it way too personally
INFPs may fail to logic things through enough
INFPs may frustrate others by appearing too indirect as they work toward conflict resolution
INFP may fear the conflict and talk to everyone except those who can solve it

2 comments:

Unknown said...

Thanks so much for your blogs and insights!

Betty Hoo said...

It is very true. Although, Improvement is on the horizon! Inspiration, motivation, positivity and balance is the key.