INFP: The Idealist
The INFP is a dreamy, imaginitive, idealist, capable of finding the good in anything or anyone, even something as foul as Newark, New Jersey. INFPs are sometimes dangerous to the well-being of society as a whole, as they are prone to adopting subversive and destructive ideologies like "The world should be fair," "People should treat one another well," and "You know, 'Friends' is a really, really stupid television show."
These irrational thought patterns may sometimes cause INFPs to run off and join the circus, the Resistance, or the Rebellion, where they tend to do well in any position requiring excellent hand-eye coordination or mastery of the Force.
COMPATIBILITY: INFPs and ISTJs generally exhibit a natural predator/prey relationship, which, though it might appear harsh and cruel from the outside, is all part of the natural cycle of life. In fact, were it not for the predation of the ISTJ, the population of INFPs would soon grow to unsustainable levels, overwhelming the ability of their ecological niche to support them.
Famous idealists include that girl in your sixth-grade homeroom who got the teacher fired for saying that girls aren't good at math; that guy in the cubicle next to yours who got the manager fired for saying that women don't make good employees; and Anais Nin.
Thursday, December 27, 2007
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
My Personal Multiple Intelligence Profile
(On a personal note, I'm very pleased to note that I'm not "lacking" in any area. On this particular test, a score of 10% in some areas is not uncommon. To me, this means that I'm competent (while not necessarily excellent) in all areas of intelligence, my forte being music and self-knowledge.
Intrapersonal intelligence, (self smart) refers to having an understanding of yourself, of knowing who you are, what you can do, what you want to do, how you react to things, which things to avoid, and which things to gravitate toward. We are drawn to people who have a good understanding of themselves because those people tend not to screw up. They tend to know what they can do. They tend to know what they can’t do. And they tend to know where to go if they need help.
People with intrapersonal intelligence are adept at looking inward and figuring out their own feelings, motivations and goals. They are introspective and seek understanding. They are intuitive and typically introverted. They learn best independently.
Common Characteristics
Introverted
Prefers working alone
Philosophical
Self-aware
Perfectionistic
Often thinks of self-employment
Enjoys journaling
Intuitive
Independent
Spends time thinking and reflecting
Likes learning about self
Musical Rhythmic Intelligence, (music smart), is the capacity to think in music, to be able to hear patterns, recognize them, and perhaps manipulate them. People who have strong musical intelligence don't just remember music easily - they can't get it out of their minds, it's so omnipresent.
People with musical intelligence love music. They appreciate rhythm and composition. They are gifted with the ability to compose, sing and/or play instrument(s). Able to recognize sounds, tones and rhythm, they have a "good ear" for music. They learn best through lectures and often use rhythm and music as a way to memorize things.
Common Characteristics
Have good rythm
Can easily memorize songs
Notice and enjoy different sounds
Often singing, whisling or tapping a song
Talented with an instrument or singing
Can tell when a note is off-key
Often have a song running through their head
Have an unquenchable passion for music
Tuesday, December 25, 2007
What Is the INFP Personality?
From: http://www.delta-associates.com
INFPs most often seem calm and serene because they carry an inner sense of their values and beliefs, with which they are comfortable and confident. Their life's actions and interactions are guided by these values, which are very coherent and integrated. They guard these values carefully and they are known in their entirety only to themselves. They have a skilled ability to interpret many of the deep issues of people and life.
INFPs share their insights only with people they trust, and in situations where their truths will not be trampled—or on occasions where not to speak out would to them be morally wrong. Otherwise they go through life dispensing a calm and peace to those around them.
NFPs are generally accepting of the people who pass their way, even those whose beliefs, values, and actions are not their own. They have the gift to make people believe they understand where the other person has traveled. They understand what others have felt and give to others the gift of self-acceptance.
INFPs are themselves independent, an independence rooted in their comfort with themselves.
INFPs believe in individuality, growth, and that the mission of life is to find one’s own unique course. The INFP is deeply committed to their beliefs and values and to the circle of those around them—family, organizations, and those they feel need them, particularly those who cannot stand up for themselves. Most often if the thoughts, beliefs and actions of those around them conflict with their own, they do not feel the need to correct them or "straighten them out."
If the INFP does not agree with the opinions of organizations they are affiliated with, the organization can still serve as a framework for their lives.
They feel no need to speak out simply because they don't agree unless it violates their own vision. They proceed on, calmly and quietly, not fuming within themselves, as do some types. But if their values are violated, they will react fiercely. INFPs are one of the most curious of all types. They like to ask open-ended questions in non-threatening ways, because they truly want to know more about life. They like reading and discussion.
They highly value people’s ability to understand themselves and their own personal path. They can often express a unique and original point of view that is pleasing and surprising. They have a personal vision that they can express clearly and in a novel way.
INFPs are often drawn to causes, religious, political and social. For all their ability to relate compassionately and non-judgmentally with different people, once they are guided by their inner vision to make a stand, they will stand firm.
INFPs often prefer to work in organizations as individual contributors. They can be quite powerful in business, religious institutions, and health care, producing incisive data and analysis, as well as efficient administration. They are effective project managers, but themselves will not be micromanaged.
They work best in areas where they are given a challenging issue or problem and are left to work through it with their considerable ingenuity. They dislike rules and strictures and grow weary of repeating tasks and repetitious assignments. They will "come out swinging," if one of their core values is violated in the workplace, often to the surprise of those around them.
People may see the INFP as reserved and introspective, difficult to know. Those who do know INFPs quickly find them to be creative, unique, and original. They learn that they are complex and often delightfully unpredictable.
INFPs are deeply loyal friends, spouses, parents, and life partners. They can perplex even those closest to them because so much of them is "hidden from view." Material goods and possessions will always be secondary to the INFP, because people and values are always first. This will confuse and sometimes frustrate in relationships with those who value material goods highly. INFPs, nonetheless, have an inner sense of joy and contentment that is infectious to those around them.
INFPs most often seem calm and serene because they carry an inner sense of their values and beliefs, with which they are comfortable and confident. Their life's actions and interactions are guided by these values, which are very coherent and integrated. They guard these values carefully and they are known in their entirety only to themselves. They have a skilled ability to interpret many of the deep issues of people and life.
INFPs share their insights only with people they trust, and in situations where their truths will not be trampled—or on occasions where not to speak out would to them be morally wrong. Otherwise they go through life dispensing a calm and peace to those around them.
NFPs are generally accepting of the people who pass their way, even those whose beliefs, values, and actions are not their own. They have the gift to make people believe they understand where the other person has traveled. They understand what others have felt and give to others the gift of self-acceptance.
INFPs are themselves independent, an independence rooted in their comfort with themselves.
INFPs believe in individuality, growth, and that the mission of life is to find one’s own unique course. The INFP is deeply committed to their beliefs and values and to the circle of those around them—family, organizations, and those they feel need them, particularly those who cannot stand up for themselves. Most often if the thoughts, beliefs and actions of those around them conflict with their own, they do not feel the need to correct them or "straighten them out."
If the INFP does not agree with the opinions of organizations they are affiliated with, the organization can still serve as a framework for their lives.
They feel no need to speak out simply because they don't agree unless it violates their own vision. They proceed on, calmly and quietly, not fuming within themselves, as do some types. But if their values are violated, they will react fiercely. INFPs are one of the most curious of all types. They like to ask open-ended questions in non-threatening ways, because they truly want to know more about life. They like reading and discussion.
They highly value people’s ability to understand themselves and their own personal path. They can often express a unique and original point of view that is pleasing and surprising. They have a personal vision that they can express clearly and in a novel way.
INFPs are often drawn to causes, religious, political and social. For all their ability to relate compassionately and non-judgmentally with different people, once they are guided by their inner vision to make a stand, they will stand firm.
INFPs often prefer to work in organizations as individual contributors. They can be quite powerful in business, religious institutions, and health care, producing incisive data and analysis, as well as efficient administration. They are effective project managers, but themselves will not be micromanaged.
They work best in areas where they are given a challenging issue or problem and are left to work through it with their considerable ingenuity. They dislike rules and strictures and grow weary of repeating tasks and repetitious assignments. They will "come out swinging," if one of their core values is violated in the workplace, often to the surprise of those around them.
People may see the INFP as reserved and introspective, difficult to know. Those who do know INFPs quickly find them to be creative, unique, and original. They learn that they are complex and often delightfully unpredictable.
INFPs are deeply loyal friends, spouses, parents, and life partners. They can perplex even those closest to them because so much of them is "hidden from view." Material goods and possessions will always be secondary to the INFP, because people and values are always first. This will confuse and sometimes frustrate in relationships with those who value material goods highly. INFPs, nonetheless, have an inner sense of joy and contentment that is infectious to those around them.
How to Love an INFP
Appreciate my uniqueness and sensitivity.
Be a patient and supportive listener.
Respect my privacy and my need for emotional intimacy.
Be reassuring and gentle in your words and actions.
Try not to force decisions too quickly, or bug me about being messy.
Above all - respect my feelings and never demand that I compromise my values.
Be a patient and supportive listener.
Respect my privacy and my need for emotional intimacy.
Be reassuring and gentle in your words and actions.
Try not to force decisions too quickly, or bug me about being messy.
Above all - respect my feelings and never demand that I compromise my values.
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Dominant Function ~ Introverted Feeling
Dominant Introverted Feeling
INFP & ISFPWhat is it like?
By Danielle Poirier www.RebelEagle.com
© copyright Rebel Eagle Productions
Usually gentle and kind, they are intense and passionate about their values and deeply held beliefs, which they share with trusted friends. Because of their discreet manner, their enthusiasm may not be apparent. They are sensitive to others' pain, restlessness or general discomfort and strive to find happiness, balance and wholeness for themselves in order to help others find joy, satisfaction and plenitude. They are deeply empathetic.
They live life in an intently personal fashion, acting on the belief that each person is unique and that social norms are to be respected only if they do not hinder personal development or expression. They strive to adhere to their own high personal moral standards and are particularly sensitive to inconsistencies in their environment between what is being said and what is being done. Empty promises of adhering to something they value – such as environmental causes or human rights - set off an inner alarm and they may transform themselves into modern day Joan of Arcs.
They are quietly persistent in raising awareness of cherished causes and often fight for the underdog in quiet or not-so-quiet ways. In a team, they will raise issues of integrity, authenticity, and good or bad, and may to opt out if the team refuses to address the questions raised.
They are usually tolerant and open-minded, insightful, flexible and understanding. They live for the understanding of others and feel deeply grateful when someone takes the time to get to know them personally. They have good listening skills, are genuinely concerned, insightful, and usually avid readers. At their best, they inspire others to be themselves.
INFP & ISFPWhat is it like?
By Danielle Poirier www.RebelEagle.com
© copyright Rebel Eagle Productions
Usually gentle and kind, they are intense and passionate about their values and deeply held beliefs, which they share with trusted friends. Because of their discreet manner, their enthusiasm may not be apparent. They are sensitive to others' pain, restlessness or general discomfort and strive to find happiness, balance and wholeness for themselves in order to help others find joy, satisfaction and plenitude. They are deeply empathetic.
They live life in an intently personal fashion, acting on the belief that each person is unique and that social norms are to be respected only if they do not hinder personal development or expression. They strive to adhere to their own high personal moral standards and are particularly sensitive to inconsistencies in their environment between what is being said and what is being done. Empty promises of adhering to something they value – such as environmental causes or human rights - set off an inner alarm and they may transform themselves into modern day Joan of Arcs.
They are quietly persistent in raising awareness of cherished causes and often fight for the underdog in quiet or not-so-quiet ways. In a team, they will raise issues of integrity, authenticity, and good or bad, and may to opt out if the team refuses to address the questions raised.
They are usually tolerant and open-minded, insightful, flexible and understanding. They live for the understanding of others and feel deeply grateful when someone takes the time to get to know them personally. They have good listening skills, are genuinely concerned, insightful, and usually avid readers. At their best, they inspire others to be themselves.
Friday, December 21, 2007
My Self-Improvement in a Nutshell
Using your strengths is easy.
The secret to success for an INFP is learning to:
DEVELOP REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS, VALUE COMPROMISE, AND NOT
TAKE THINGS QUITE SO PERSONALLY
http://www.iusb.edu/~sbcareer/infp.pdf.
The secret to success for an INFP is learning to:
DEVELOP REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS, VALUE COMPROMISE, AND NOT
TAKE THINGS QUITE SO PERSONALLY
http://www.iusb.edu/~sbcareer/infp.pdf.
More INFP Description
INFP
introverted-intuitive-feeling-perceptive
Quiet
Sensitive
Perceptive
Creative
Idealistic
Committed to people and causes
Spiritual or Philosophical
Capacity for deep caring
Likes harmony
Guided by strong inner sense of values
INFPs are the true idealists. Much of their lives can be said to be viewed through "rose-colored glasses".
"Hope springs eternal" is a good motto which describes their decided philosophy for the rugged places in relationships or the causes to which they commit themselves - for they can pity the most unpitiable and attempt to placate the most tyrannical.
INFPs are deeply caring and entrenched in striving for harmony in all situations, their deeply-held spiritual and core values giving them guidance and lending them sustenance in difficult situations.
INFPs are deeply involved in a rich, inner life which can be holy in content or escapist in reality. They are also deeply sensitive and - being quite tenderhearted - are quite easy to have their feelings hurt. They are apt to think whispering and jokes are at their expense, when none such is intended.
Mystical and creative, the INFP's life can also be nearly non-human - ethereal - no matter which side of it they are viewing. Even as children, they exhibit the ability to "lose themselves" in the fairy tales they read and project themselves into daydreams of lofty grandeur or to have imaginary playmates who are very real to them. Even their sharing of their experiences have an imaginary air about them. Unintentionally, they may add what they "felt" to the telling rather than what "really was".
INFPs are quiet, creative, idealistic - and are "true-blue" friends. Many times it is their unquestioning loyalty that leads relationships in which they are involved to continue - even with those who are not worthy of such freely given devotion.
Generous in spirit, they are able to sustain abuse beyond merit and to invite their generosities to be abused by others for their own advantage - until one day, without warning, they erupt with rage and candor which surprise not only the recipient but the INFPs themselves.
They have the ability to avoid situations that are imminently threatening to their inner peace by withdrawing from the "give-and-take" arena and escaping into an inner world of enjoyment, pleasure and insights. They are deeply wounded by "man's inhumanity to man" but their gentleness and sensitivities rarely enable them to publicly crusade as their INFJ brethren.
Like their INFJ brethren, the EST world of business is an energy-sapping enterprise for them and they, too, suffer various muscular and emotional maladies which require quiet times replete with inspirational music and meditation to heal their weary spirits.
The "drive to perfection" is a painful side of life for INFPs for whom the Ideal is always just beyond the reach. Even enjoyable moments are not always spontaneously entered into for fear of having to "lose" the joy or "pay for it" in some unknown, dark and painful way.
The deeply religious INFP has capacity for the mystical side of religion and gains insights not enjoyed by all types into "the deeper things of God". They can even long for "martyrdom" to "prove" their deep, hidden and rich love for God and the heavenlies.
Conscientious at times to a fault, INFPs are deserving of recognition for the generosity of their caring spirits. The world is a better place because of their gentle and unassuming natures.
Fannie R. Linder, Psy.D.
http://members.tripod.com/~PersonalityInstitute/INFPs.htm
introverted-intuitive-feeling-perceptive
Quiet
Sensitive
Perceptive
Creative
Idealistic
Committed to people and causes
Spiritual or Philosophical
Capacity for deep caring
Likes harmony
Guided by strong inner sense of values
INFPs are the true idealists. Much of their lives can be said to be viewed through "rose-colored glasses".
"Hope springs eternal" is a good motto which describes their decided philosophy for the rugged places in relationships or the causes to which they commit themselves - for they can pity the most unpitiable and attempt to placate the most tyrannical.
INFPs are deeply caring and entrenched in striving for harmony in all situations, their deeply-held spiritual and core values giving them guidance and lending them sustenance in difficult situations.
INFPs are deeply involved in a rich, inner life which can be holy in content or escapist in reality. They are also deeply sensitive and - being quite tenderhearted - are quite easy to have their feelings hurt. They are apt to think whispering and jokes are at their expense, when none such is intended.
Mystical and creative, the INFP's life can also be nearly non-human - ethereal - no matter which side of it they are viewing. Even as children, they exhibit the ability to "lose themselves" in the fairy tales they read and project themselves into daydreams of lofty grandeur or to have imaginary playmates who are very real to them. Even their sharing of their experiences have an imaginary air about them. Unintentionally, they may add what they "felt" to the telling rather than what "really was".
INFPs are quiet, creative, idealistic - and are "true-blue" friends. Many times it is their unquestioning loyalty that leads relationships in which they are involved to continue - even with those who are not worthy of such freely given devotion.
Generous in spirit, they are able to sustain abuse beyond merit and to invite their generosities to be abused by others for their own advantage - until one day, without warning, they erupt with rage and candor which surprise not only the recipient but the INFPs themselves.
They have the ability to avoid situations that are imminently threatening to their inner peace by withdrawing from the "give-and-take" arena and escaping into an inner world of enjoyment, pleasure and insights. They are deeply wounded by "man's inhumanity to man" but their gentleness and sensitivities rarely enable them to publicly crusade as their INFJ brethren.
Like their INFJ brethren, the EST world of business is an energy-sapping enterprise for them and they, too, suffer various muscular and emotional maladies which require quiet times replete with inspirational music and meditation to heal their weary spirits.
The "drive to perfection" is a painful side of life for INFPs for whom the Ideal is always just beyond the reach. Even enjoyable moments are not always spontaneously entered into for fear of having to "lose" the joy or "pay for it" in some unknown, dark and painful way.
The deeply religious INFP has capacity for the mystical side of religion and gains insights not enjoyed by all types into "the deeper things of God". They can even long for "martyrdom" to "prove" their deep, hidden and rich love for God and the heavenlies.
Conscientious at times to a fault, INFPs are deserving of recognition for the generosity of their caring spirits. The world is a better place because of their gentle and unassuming natures.
Fannie R. Linder, Psy.D.
http://members.tripod.com/~PersonalityInstitute/INFPs.htm
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